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What is Mom Guilt?

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A common example is moms who go back to work after having a baby often feel guilty about it. "Similarly, when mothers choose to exercise, spend extra time with their friends or go to the salon instead of playing with the child, they may face pangs of sudden mom guilt."

NUK, a babycare product company reported that 87 percent of all moms feel mothers guilt and 21 percent feel it almost all the time.

A Pew Research Center says that the number of moms who work full-time is dwindling, indicating that mom guilt is real.

Why Do Mothers Feel Mom Guilt?

The answer lies in maternal instinct. It's part of a mother's design to choose her child's comforts over her own or at least that's what the society propagates. This self-sacrificial behaviour is often eulogised and perpetuated as a quality that makes a mother.

No wonder women feel inadequate no matter how much they dote on their children. "The inability to meet such a build-up leads to mom's guilt," says Dr Dutta.슬롯 머신 사이트 추천Mother슬롯사이트s Day 2019: Funny Memes, Jokes and GIFs to Celebrate the Day for Moms, ROFLing Hard Together!

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Is Mom Guilt Justified?

"Yes and no," says the doctor. "Feeling a little guilt shows the strong bond you feel for the wonderful creature you have created and feel responsible for."

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Mom guilt is ok as long as it is in small doses. Trouble starts when it starts getting unmanageable or unhealthy. Mom guilt can lead to lack of productivity or even depression.

"Many mothers say that the mom's guilt has stopped them from getting back to their own lives. And some even state that they don슬롯사이트t even recognise themselves anymore," adds Dr Dutta.

How to Overcome Mom Guilt

Mom guilt can be draining and overcome it you must. And the only way to counter it is by self-love.

Moms are made to feel guilty about prioritising their needs. That should change. A woman doesn't stop having needs of her own when she has a child.

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"Self-love means dedicating some times each day to pursue your passions, love (other than the child) and interests. Even if it means taking a little longer shower to relax, it슬롯사이트s ok. Practise self-love daily!" she adds.

"Be the best version of you and that is more than enough for your child, your partner, your family, and more importantly, you!" Dr Dutta states.

So let's instead strive to be a happy mother instead of the perfect one. Wishing all the moms out there a very Happy Mother's Day.

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